The law of proximity
Despite all the lecture slides I have to go through on anatomy, physiology and biochemistry, I decided to give myself a treat....to blog . Right now I find myself lying supine and my hamstrings and my gluteus muscles lying on my comfortable bed with my encephalon charging up with ideas as well as my autonomous nervous system controlling my heartbeat . My excitement, indeed, knows no bounds at the moment. Somehow, through out the week as I went up and down for lectures I took a breather and saw that God had been my helper all this while. Again I'm thinking about something I have concluded about.. I call it the law of proximity. Like the effect of gravity on me, I haven't been able to find a suitable way to counteract this law of proximity maybe you could offer some advice but like the negative and positive feedback mechanism, we could just decide to not stay close...this law of closeness.
Let's face fact here. Let's all come clean . This law works like charm. Somehow I think it's a good way to not know your true feelings towards or about a person. It clouds your thoughts and sets you wondering. 'What are these electric signals in my heart?' ' What is this deep sensation of emotion I feel?' The law of proximity states that the closer you get to someone the more your heart finds space to accommodate desirable feelings of love, care and total affection towards them. ( my own definition..ha! I'm so proud of myself)
Hey, come back here. What are you thinking? Relationship with the opposite sex? (Eyes wide open). Okay, our humble law applies there too but I prefer we take the family relationship and peer relationship into consideration. I love my parents because of the law of proximity ( I did not say that's the only way, it's a factor to consider) the more I get to understand and relate well with those around, the more I fall in love with them. I begin to see their interests as intriguing, their laughter as fascinating and even their little mistakes as adorable. Love begins to fill my heart as the law of proximity heightens with time. As for me, I can say I have been careful because of this law because I know that if I allow this law to work its way into my relationship with others especially our handsome male species, I might fall prey to hallucinations about admiration, love and all those beautiful feelings of life's fairytale. I won't say I haven't been a victim, I have truly been a victim of the law of proximity especially when it relates to blokes. But I have been able to sustain myself through it all and managed not to base my admiration or strong emotions on PROXIMITY alone. Trust me, this thing is real. It Works! The law of Proximity!
Let's face fact here. Let's all come clean . This law works like charm. Somehow I think it's a good way to not know your true feelings towards or about a person. It clouds your thoughts and sets you wondering. 'What are these electric signals in my heart?' ' What is this deep sensation of emotion I feel?' The law of proximity states that the closer you get to someone the more your heart finds space to accommodate desirable feelings of love, care and total affection towards them. ( my own definition..ha! I'm so proud of myself)
Hey, come back here. What are you thinking? Relationship with the opposite sex? (Eyes wide open). Okay, our humble law applies there too but I prefer we take the family relationship and peer relationship into consideration. I love my parents because of the law of proximity ( I did not say that's the only way, it's a factor to consider) the more I get to understand and relate well with those around, the more I fall in love with them. I begin to see their interests as intriguing, their laughter as fascinating and even their little mistakes as adorable. Love begins to fill my heart as the law of proximity heightens with time. As for me, I can say I have been careful because of this law because I know that if I allow this law to work its way into my relationship with others especially our handsome male species, I might fall prey to hallucinations about admiration, love and all those beautiful feelings of life's fairytale. I won't say I haven't been a victim, I have truly been a victim of the law of proximity especially when it relates to blokes. But I have been able to sustain myself through it all and managed not to base my admiration or strong emotions on PROXIMITY alone. Trust me, this thing is real. It Works! The law of Proximity!
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